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In the Middle of a Storm

Lighthouse in the StormLighthouse in the Middle of the Storm

We actually never know what is going to happen next in life. But we usually have a pretty good idea. Right now, I am writing this blog entry from a place of personal destitution. I am in the middle of a storm and I can’t see anything up ahead accept a very bright light from the top of a Lighthouse. God is in control. I have to keep my focus on that light and eventually the storm will clear.

In a matter of just a few hours, everything went from normal to a complete blackout in my life. I am sure you have been here before. I am feeling lost, discouraged, empty, and pretty much worthless.

For anyone who has ever felt this way before, or maybe you feel this way right now, I want you to know something. There is a greater purpose for your life than what is happening at this moment.

The Storm that Almost Swallowed Me Whole

I remember feeling this badly once before in my life. At the age of 18, I decided that I just HAD to be independent because that is the type of person I am. I got a job, moved out on my own and hit the ground running.

What I didn’t know is that life was HARD. I lived in an efficiency apartment that cost me $100/month in rent. I was making about $93 a week in wages.  Finances became an issue when I ended up in the hospital for an appendectomy.  My love life was a mess. And I was not handling the adult-ING thing very well at all.

At some point, that storm became so dark that I figured the world would be a lot better off without me in it. I took every bottle out of the cupboards that I could find, sat down and took them all and just waited.

Only by the grace of God was my life spared that day. My mother called me and as we were talking, she could tell something was very wrong. I kept insisting that I was fine, but she wasn’t buying it. She called my uncle, and he and his wife came to my apartment. All I remember is walking down the street with them at my sides, trying to get me to sober up. They had no idea what was wrong with me.

Then next thing I remember is waking up in the ICU a day or two later. My throat was killing me and I had nasty remnants of black charcoal all over the inside of my mouth.

That day, God chose to spare my life.  It took me several years to realize what he did for me that day. It took me several years to realize who He is; who I am.

Finding the truth about who you are won’t make the world you live in storm-free. But it WILL give you a Lighthouse to follow through EVERY storm that comes along. You just have to look for it and keep your focus on it.

Right Here Right Now

This storm is going to pass for me. And your storm will pass for you. If you can’t see the lighthouse, I encourage you to open your heart.  You DON’T have to clean up your act to find God. You DON’T have to give up whatever vices you may be clinging to, to find God. It is about having a RELATION with Him, not having RELIGION! Right where you are, right now, you can cry out to Him and be completely transparent with Him about how you feel. Tell Him right now, right where you are, that you want to know who He is. Tell Him that you want to have a relationship with Him. You will be amazed at how bright that light will shine.

If you have decided today is the day you will start a relationship with Him, I encourage you to tell someone close to you. You’re never too old, too young, or too lost and it is never too late.



New Years Resolutions

ResolutionsMy New Years Resolutions

I am not normally one to make New Years Resolutions. This year, however, I feel like I am starting a new chapter in my life. Finishing my degree has really allowed me extra time to think about being a mother, a wife, a teacher, an employee, and as of this month, an entrepreneur.

I am looking forward to a year that is extraordinarily productive, so here is the list of things I would like to see happen this year:

    1. First and foremost, I plan to spend more time reading my Bible and making my faith my top priority. I have talked in a couple of different posts about the importance of scheduling. From now on, I am going to purposely set aside time every day to read and pray.

That’s it. Ok, so I know that one thing is not a list. But for me, everything else I struggle with in my life stems from this one thing. My struggles in life, including ADHD, can be managed through prayer and my relationship with Jesus Christ. I can say this with confidence out of experience. It is how I quit smoking 15 plus years ago. Ffaith is about a relationship, not about being religious and following a bunch of do’s and don’t. There are so many other things that I want to see fall into line. Here is the rest of the list:

        1. Spend more time in family activities
        2. Digital organization (pictures and videos)
        3. Weight loss
        4. Cleaner house
        5. Meal Planning
        6. Coupon-ing/Frugal Shopping
        7. Better health

Your New Years Resolutions

So what are your New Years Resolutions? I would love it if you would share here. Maybe just one of your main hopes and dreams for the year 2017. How do you plan to work on accomplishing them? Any links you have found in this first week of the new year that has inspired you in your endeavors? Comment below and let me know. I would love to hear from you.